Thursday, July 22, 2010

Youth Mentoring Sets Sights on Dropout Prevention


To the Many Supporters of SMILES:

It's not too often that we find ourselves ahead of the curve, but in this case SMILES is out front by no less than seven years! It was seven years ago when we established our first pilot mentoring programs at two New Bedford middle schools. The mission was then as it is now - to use structured school-based mentoring as a strategy to help students achieve thier educational potential so that more of them will graduate from high school.

The following press release was issued recently by the three leading national mentoring organizations. It announces a "joint initiative to help combat America's school dropout crisis" and helps direct prospective volunteer mentors to communities with the lowest-performing schools. Fall River and New Bedford are among the 170 communites listed as having the lowest performing schools.

From a practical point of view, SMILES is perfectly positioned to take advantage of this initiative in our effort to achieve continued growth. Hopefully, broader recognition of the primary role mentoring can play in dropout prevention will translate into increased resources to support programs like SMILES that exist for the sole purpose of helping kids do better in school so they will graduate.

Whatever happens next, it's a good day when these three national mentoring organizations publicly and aggressively apply their considerable resources to the important and challenging work of dropout prevention.

- Jim Mathes -
Executive Director
SMILES Mentoring Program
A Program of People, Incorporated

July 16, 2010: Today, MENTOR, Big Brothers Big Sisters of America and Mentoring USA launched a joint initiative to help combat America's school dropout crisis that uses a Volunteer Referral Service to route potential mentors to mentoring programs throughout the United States, including 170 communities with the lowest-performing schools.

Known as Academic Achievement through Mentoring, the initiative was first noted at a 2010 National Conference on Volunteering and Service issue forum on mentoring as a solution to the school dropout crisis, where speakers included Joshua DuBois of the White House Office of Faith Based Initiatives, Matilda Cuomo of Mentoring USA, Dr. Larry Wright of MENTOR and Karen Mathis of Big Brothers Big Sisters of America.

Today's launch at www.mentoring.org/aatm/ allows potential mentors to access the list of 2,000 identified schools and then type their own zip code into MENTOR's Volunteer Referral Service consisting of more than 5,000 guality mentoring programs. If visitors to the site choose, they then can be connected with a mentoring provider for the identified school district, such as Big Brothers Big Sisters and others.

Mentoring is a youth intervention that research shows can help keep students in school, out of trouble and working to achieve their potential as individuals and as citizens. During the Conference on Volunteering and Service, DuBois cited alarming statistics for the capacity crowd, including:

* 1.3 million American students drop out of high school each year.
* One-third of all children and one-half of low income and minority youth
fail to graduate on time.
* Of minority students who enroll in college, only 10 percent graduate.
* Only 3 percent of today's jobs are available to unskilled employees.
* The 2,000 lowest-performing schools are located in 170 communities.

Research has shown mentoring to have significant positive effects on two early indicators of high school dropouts -- high levels of absenteeism and recurring behavior problems. Youth in mentoring relationships present better attitudes and behaviors at school and are more likely to attend college than their counterparts.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

What has four legs, four arms, four eyes, two heads and two HUGE smiles?
A successful mentor match, of course!

Okay, so that's not the best riddle you ever read and it's a pretty weak example of humor but it's the thought that counts, right?

Humor and mentoring go hand in hand, just ask Charlie Appelstein. Appelstein is an author, speaker and therapist who has been working with troubled kids for years. In his book, No Such thing As a Bad Kid, Appelstein stresses the importance of humor in establishing and nurturing a relationship with any youth.

Now, not all of us were born comic geniuses, right? Being funny and having the ability to make other people laugh seem to come naturally to some people but what about the rest of us?

Appelstein suggests buying a joke book and reading some jokes out loud to your mentee. You could even memorize a few. You know, build a repertoire! Other ideas include showing up wearing a funny hat or plastic nose and black glasses, or other funny costume; using props such as wind-up toys, cards and magic tricks; taking traditional games like Bingo and adding twists to them that make them silly and more fun than they already are.

Those are just a few of the ideas that Appelstein writes about. One thing he warns against is using any kind of sarcasm, as it, in Appelstein's words, "masks feelings of hostility" and is "a put-down."

Really, a little humor, especially the self-deprecating kind, can really brighten a child's day. And, it's another gift that you can give to your mentee: The gift of laughter.

The PSA at the bottom of this blog entry is a great example of how humor and laughter can help to strengthen a relationship. After you watch it, SMILES would love to know how you have used humor in your mentoring relationship, or any ideas for sharing humor that you might have.